Sex Positions To Control Premature Ejaculation

Cognitive techniques that changes a man’s thinking during sex, combined with behavioral pacing techniques that slow down his approach to orgasm, combined with relaxation to calm feelings of anxiety, may be an ideal starting point for a man who wishes to control his premature ejaculation during intercourse.

In other words, therefore, effective treatment of premature ejaculation involves three steps: learning to become sensuously and sensually aroused, and making the transition from this state of arousal into sexual arousal, while simultaneously maintaining a state of physiological relaxation.

What this means is that a man can become sexually aroused because he himself is fully invested in the sexual act, rather than because he’s been aroused by merely seeing his partner or anticipating sex.

Here’s a video on premature ejaculation by Rod Phillips

 

The second step is to learn conscious control of premature ejaculation by changing thinking and behavior, using techniques that enable man to resist the rapid increase in sexual arousal and a fast approach to the point of no return.

The third element is that of comfortable corporation with a lover, ensuring that the man knows how to please her satisfactorily.

However, as far as sexual positions for controlling premature ejaculation are concerned, the best is by far the side-by-side sex position.

It has been said many times on the Internet that this is a good position for sexual intercourse for men who come quickly, but the reason why this statement has been made is because it is absolutely true!

Side by side sex
Side by side sex

The fact is that the side-by-side sex position puts far less pressure on the man’s penis than any other sex position, while still allowing women to feel a great deal of pleasure from the pressure of the penis against the internal tissues of the vaginal wall.

In this way, the needs of both partners in the sexual act can be satisfied, giving the manner great chance of prolonging lovemaking, while still pleasing the woman.

It’s certainly true that the lack of sensation a man feels may make him initially feel that he’s getting less pleasure from sexual intercourse than he otherwise would, but the reality of the matter is that this long buildup to orgasm will ultimately make his orgasm much more pleasurable.

It’s a fact that when sexual pleasure is prolonged, and the process of arousal extended by using sex positions which cause less stimulation to the penis, ultimately one’s orgasm and emotional fulfillment are much greater.

Though this may be a strange fact, it’s absolutely true, and it emphasizes that sex positions like man on top, where the man is able to thrust deeply and achieve a rapid and satisfying orgasm, are not necessarily designed in any way for female pleasure, but only to satisfy the needs of the man.

rear entry sex
Rear entry sex

It’s also true, therefore. that anything which the man finds highly arousing, like rear entry sex, will also have the same impact on his sexual performance.

That is to say, his performance will deteriorate, and the speed of his ejaculation will increase.

Now as challenging as it may be to use sex positions which delay orgasm and overcome premature ejaculation in this way, it will ultimately be a great advantage to the relationship.

Curing Premature Ejaculation Isn’t Just About Sex

 

After all, sacrificing your own sexual pleasure to prolong intercourse is a very generous gesture of showing you want to please your partner. And of course you do want her to be pleasured, to gain sexual satisfaction. You probably know how to pleasure her already but it will not have escaped you that the other significant advantage of the side-by-side sex position is that the woman is able to stimulate her clitoris — or indeed, the man can do it for her.

There are many advantages, including the fact that the man and woman can fondle each other’s breasts, can kiss, and can talk, while being able to look each other in the eye, and also the fact that they can pause during intercourse.

All of these are things which add to the pleasure and satisfaction of sex if the couple are aiming for greater intimacy and emotional connection during penetration and lovemaking.

One of the things about positions such as the man on top is that they can rapidly become a means for ejaculation control. A sex position like this enables both partners to gain a great deal of satisfaction and pleasure, allowing intimacy to be re-established, and that in itself allows the man to establish greater control over his ejaculation. You can read much more here – The Female Orgasm Blueprint.

The way this works is that when intimacy and sexual connection are really established deeply between the couple, the man’s anxiety decreases significantly. And, as you may well aware, anxiety is a very significant factor in the genesis of premature ejaculation.

Many men have emotional control alongside physical control, and it’s to everybody’s advantage that this should be so. That’s because the sex act is ultimately both more meaningful and more pleasurable using positions like side-by-side sex. These mean that the man may eventually be able to ejaculate with complete control, or at least with significantly more control than he would otherwise have.

After establishing control, it is likely that the man is going to find he’s far less excited by the act of sexual intercourse then he previously was. And here, by “excited”, we mean excited in an uncontrolled way, in a way that takes his arousal rapidly towards the point of no return. Because reaching the point of ejaculatory inevitability out of control causes him to ejaculate more or less uncontrollably.

Its incumbent on every couple to experiment with sexual positions to find the ones that make them less likely to ejaculate prematurely, of the man to be able to go on and make love for as long as his partner desires.

Ultimately of course, the final objective of war men seeking greater ejaculatory control is to be able to orgasm by command.

To ejaculate by choice, that is to say when a man feels that he has achieved satisfaction and his woman is able to reach orgasm, is a gift. In most cases of woman orgasm during intercourse she will trigger the man’s orgasm since the experience is simply too exciting for him to resist any longer.

Nonetheless this is a good compromise, and gives both partners great pleasure, therefore we highly recommend not only techniques to control premature ejaculation, but sexual positions which prolong the act of lovemaking. Only in this way is a member of the establish effective control over premature ejaculation.

Delayed Ejaculation Can Be Controlled Too!

 

Links to some helpful videos:

Porn and delayed ejaculation

Causes of delayed ejaculation

Treatment of delayed ejaculation

Definition of delayed ejaculation